Intimacy Jam
A space for connection and community without complexity. Practice consent and communication skills in a safe, structured environment. Explore touch. Feel held.
Every Intimacy Jam is different, with specific themes and activities. More importantly, each time, the unique mix of participants is different, and they co-create exactly the experience they need.
Section Title
Past
Intimacy Jam
Themes
The Art of Wanting
Understanding and practicing the inner processes of desiring, choosing, adjusting, improving, wanting.
The Art of No
Your "No" is a gift. Here, we learned to love and celebrate giving and receiving No's, and enjoy the space within the boundaries we set.
The Art of the Cuddle Puddle
Here we addressed the joys and fears of Cuddle Puddles, learned practical skills and enjoyed creative and diverse connection in groups.
Valentines Day
Everybody deserves care and attention on Valentines Day. It should not be limited to people who are able to be with a romantic partner. This event is an annual favourite!
Hallowe'en, Christmas, New Years
We mark these traditional (and sometimes very commercial) holidays with an embodied, community-focussed twist.
Cuddle Party
These events used to be called Cuddle Parties. We have found that the new name invites more depth and co-creation.
Intimacy vs. Cuddles
The term "cuddle" suggests that it is the main or only activity at a Cuddle Party. But so many modes of connection are possible! The word "intimacy" welcomes a much broader range to an event, and switches the focus from the action of cuddling to the feeling of intimacy.
Jam vs. Party
A "jam" is a co-creation. Everybody supports one another. There is no right way to do it; everybody participates in a way that feels good to them. A "party" is a social thing filled with social expectations and many potential stresses. It is often an energetic affair.
"Cuddle Party" didn't really describe the essence of the events well. But "Intimacy Jam" fits just right! And naming it this way invites even more of the good stuff.